Guido Dippel

My work is very important to me, and the massages I give should be something very SPECIAL for you!

Therefore, unlike almost all tantric massage providers, I only offer one appointment per day.

Tantric massage is a very energetically demanding massage, and the massage loses quality and effectiveness when it is offered as a mass-produced commodity.

So much that wants to be seen can be revealed before, during, and after a tantric massage.

This means that a massage can sometimes be a little longer, and a pre- or post-massage consultation is not confined to a specific time frame.

Or I receive you and my thoughts are still on the previous massage.

You can rest assured that I will be with you, with all my mindfulness, love and energy, wherever the journey takes you.

So that it will be an "extraordinary experience" for you!

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Dear Guido,

It's only been a few hours since I got home from the tantric massage. I'm completely exhausted. My body is tired. I feel like everything around me is too much. I have a deep longing for silence. I'm making myself a nest with cozy blankets and trying to block out all external stimuli (music, moving images, etc.). I just want to be in my own space, with myself, just lying there and simply being. To cry, to be happy, to relive the deep touches and special moments.

It was so wonderful how you created the welcoming ritual according to my needs. I was able to enjoy being touched so mindfully and hearing you speak the words that gave me permission to let go and to consider this space my own. My space – a year ago, I never would have thought I had the right to even possess such a space. Tears of touch keep welling up. And that's okay too. Experiencing closeness used to be fraught with fear for me, even though I had a deep longing for it. Now I can allow you to guide me and move my body, to lie beneath me and hold my outstretched arms. The space above me – my space – my freedom. You breathe with me, calmly and relaxed, in my rhythm. I felt so safe and free in that moment.

Fear is allowed its space. When I feel it return, you hold me, comfort me, and tell me in quiet words that you are there and that I don't need to be afraid. This deep trust feels so incredibly good. You gently stroke my hands, then massage them with a little more pressure. You softly touch my face, massage my arms and shoulders with a fragrant oil, place your hand on my heart, and wait…

You massage my breasts and stomach so gently. Parts of my body that I used to hate so much, that I didn't want to see or feel. They remind me of my femininity, which I never wanted to acknowledge before. I've received so much from you and learned so much from you.

During the anal massage, the fear of my own pleasure and shame returned. Yet I know how arousing I actually find these touches. I told you this too, and you responded, allowing me to enjoy it after all.

Each time I experience something new. You made me feel safe by gently stroking my arms, torso, and pubic area with a feather and a pearl necklace (at least that's what it felt like; I had my eyes closed the whole time). I was able to relax after feeling anxious, and it was so wonderful to feel that softness on my skin.

The yoni massage was also wonderful. Initially, I felt a sharp pain in my lower abdomen. It felt like I had a tennis ball above my pubic bone.

I felt afraid you might touch that spot and tensed up. I let you know. You helped me breathe into that area, pressed on different spots, and I was able to accept the pain and let it go, little by little. After the yoni massage, I felt so much positive energy throughout my entire body. My body trembled, and it felt like every cell in my body was pulsating.

This time you gently washed me at the end with a washcloth and warm water. It felt so nice.

Then you covered me with my lungi towel, and then the tears came, the sadness I had already sensed in the anticipation of the massage. You remained seated, placed my feet on your stomach, your legs resting against my sides, and you held my feet. You sensed that it was important not to leave. I wept, sobbed, my body trembling. It seemed as if I were emotionally in the midst of a deep childhood wound. In the background, I heard soft music.

I was able to allow myself to feel the emotions and tune into them. At some point, a wonderfully powerful energy emanated from my heart and flowed with such warmth towards my pelvis. It was about trust and release. Loving inner words followed, conveying appreciation and acceptance. It was so energetic, and there was so much love in that energy. At the same time, I felt your body; you had also lain down. We simply lay there. It felt so good, and I felt so safe and secure. Then there was silence. You were present. I felt your breath and your energy within my body. I let go and felt so incredibly close to myself. I felt like I was in a nest. What an experience.

We both resurfaced eventually, sat facing each other naked, covered only by a cloth, and you smiled at me. I said to you, "Ten years ago, I wouldn't have believed that trauma work and the path to healing could be so beautiful." And you replied that back then I wasn't ready for it.

Sometimes I don't even know how to put my gratitude towards you into words.

I hope this post encourages women to also take this wonderful path. It might take courage at the beginning, but it will definitely be rewarded.

I've discovered a wonderfully safe place for myself, a place I can mentally retreat to in my everyday life. There, I can be exactly as I am; all my feelings have their place, and I can feel held and embraced as a woman. These many positive experiences have transformed my sense of self and my body image. Now, I often feel simply happy from a deep place in my daily life.

What a gift.

Dear Guido, my sincerest thanks