Guido Dippel

What I do is very important to me and the massages I give should be something very SPECIAL for you!

Therefore, unlike almost all tantric massage providers, I only make one appointment per day.

Tantric massage is a very energetically demanding massage and the massage loses quality and effectiveness when it is offered as a mass product.

Before, during and after a tantric massage, so much can be revealed that wants to be seen.

This means that a massage can sometimes be a little longer and a pre- or post-treatment consultation is not scheduled within a specific time frame.

Or I welcome you and my thoughts are still on the previous massage.

You can rely on me being with you with all my attention, love and energy, wherever the journey takes you.

So that it will be an "extraordinary experience" for you!

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Dear Guido,

It's only been a few hours since I got home from the tantric massage. I'm completely exhausted. My body is tired. I feel like everything outside is too much. I have a deep longing for silence. I'm building myself a nest with cozy blankets and trying to tune out all external stimuli (music, moving images, etc.). I just want to be in my space and with myself, just lie there and be. Cry, be happy, and relive the deep touches and special moments.

It was so wonderful how you created the welcoming ritual according to my needs. I enjoyed being touched so mindfully and hearing you speak the words that gave me permission to let go and to regard this space as mine. My space - a year ago I would never have thought that I had the right to even own such a space. Tears of touch keep rolling down my cheeks. But they are allowed too. Feeling close used to be something I was afraid of, even though I had a deep longing for it. Now I can allow you to guide me and move my body, to lie beneath me and hold my arms outstretched. The space above me - my space - my freedom. You breathe with me, calmly and relaxed, in my rhythm. I felt so safe and free in this moment.

Fear is allowed its space. If I report it back, you hold me, offer comfort, and tell me in quiet words that you are there and that I don't need to be afraid. This deep trust feels so incredibly good. You gently stroke my hands, massage them with a little more force. You gently touch my face, massage my arms and shoulders with a fragrant oil, place your hand on my heart area, and wait...

You mindfully massage my breasts and stomach. These are the parts of my body that I used to hate so much, that I didn't want to see or touch. They remind me of my femininity, something I never wanted to acknowledge. I've received so much from you and learned so much from you.

During the anal massage, the fear of my own pleasure and shame returned. Yet I know how arousing I actually find these touches. I told you that, too, and you responded, so I was still able to enjoy it.

Every time, I experience something new. You gave me a sense of security by gently stroking my arms, upper body, and pubic mound with a feather and a string of pearls (at least that's how it felt, I had my eyes closed the whole time). I was able to relax after the fear I had previously felt, and it was so nice to feel that "softness" on my skin.

The yoni massage was also wonderful. Initially, I felt a sharp pain in my lower abdomen. It felt like I had a tennis ball above my pubic bone.

I felt afraid that you might touch that spot, and I tensed up. I reported it back. You supported me in breathing there, pressing on various spots, and I was able to accept the pain and let it go little by little. After the yoni massage, I felt so much positive energy throughout my entire body. My body trembled, and it felt as if every cell in my body was pulsing.

This time, you carefully washed me at the end with a washcloth and warm water. It felt so nice.

Afterwards, you covered me with my lunghi towel, and then came the tears, the sadness I had already sensed while preparing for the massage. You stayed seated, placed my feet on your stomach, your legs resting on my sides, and you held my feet. You sensed it was important not to leave. I cried, sobbed, my body trembled. It seemed as if I were emotionally immersed in my deep childhood wounds. I heard soft music in the background.

I was able to allow the feelings and sense them. At some point a wonderfully strong energy released from my heart and flowed with so much warmth towards my pelvis. It was about trust and release. This was followed by inner loving words that conveyed appreciation and acceptance. It was so energetic and there was so much love in this energy. At the same time I felt your body; you had also laid down. We just lay there. It felt soooo good and I felt so safe. Then there was silence. You were present. I felt your breathing and energy in my body. I let myself go and was so infinitely close to myself. I felt like I was in a nest. What an experience.

At some point, we both resurfaced, sitting opposite each other naked and covered only by a sheet, and you smiled at me. I said to you, "Ten years ago, I wouldn't have believed that trauma work and the path to healing could be so beautiful. And you answered me that I wasn't ready for it back then."

Sometimes I don't know how to put into words how grateful I feel to you.

I hope this post encourages women to take this wonderful path. It may take courage at first, but it will definitely be rewarded.

I've discovered a wonderfully safe place for myself, where I can mentally retreat from everyday life. There, I'm allowed to be who I am, all my feelings have their space, and I can feel supported and like a woman. The many positive experiences have changed my self-image and my body image. Now, in everyday life, I often feel simply happy from the depths of my being.

What a gift.

Dear Guido, my sincere thanks