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Thomas Aeffner
Schwalmtal, Duisburg-Baerl
I am also happy to massage and accompany "seniors" and people with disabilities.
Philosophy
Like a musician bringing a song to life, an actor bringing a play to life, for me tantric massage is an applied form of art. In my "previous life" I was a painter. When that was no longer possible for me, I devoted myself to tantra massage with the same passion. If I previously moved people deeply with my pictures, this is now happening directly: by touching the body I not only evoke joy and desire, but also touch the soul if the person is open to it.
Tantra and tantra massage have occupied me for many years - at first only theoretically. My spiritual quest first brought me to other practices: autogenic training, tarot, yoga and reiki. It was only when there were drastic changes in my life that I made the decision to really embark on this path. And I have not regretted lovingly accepting life as it presents itself, acknowledging the connection with everything that is, feeling lovingly connected to the people I meet. For me, the tantra massage is the real expression of lived love.
During the massage I am in a meditative state: surrendered and yet completely awake, completely with my counterpart and yet completely with me.
You are welcome with me, as a man or woman or however you see yourself, as a person with a handicap... just as you are. During the massage I see the person's personality in their body. I accept you as you are, I touch your soul through the skin - with love.
As a woman, placing yourself in the hands of a mindful man – who is only there for you when touched, who doesn’t want anything from you, to whom you can therefore devote yourself in trust, who is at your service – can give you a previously unknown feeling of well-being . Even the consequences of bad experiences, even abuse, can be alleviated and resolved in this way, since your self-healing powers are activated and you can become whole again.
With me you can also learn more about your ability to female ejaculation.
The man-to-man massage is a unique experience: powerful, energetic. Even if your orientation is heterosexual, this experience of encountering male energies can be an unexpected enrichment.
If you live in circumstances that deny you loving touch, I look forward to showing you again how good it feels to experience tenderness.
It is your birthright to be happy - I would be happy to accompany you on the way there.
Touch makes you happy!
As a masseur, I have trained myself especially in the healing of the yoni.
Special forms of yoni massage are particularly suitable for releasing blockages in the genital area and stimulating the self-healing powers of the yoni and the entire pelvic area. Through my previous training, I support people of all genders in becoming aware of their physical blockages, especially in the pelvic area, and in letting them flow and dissolve through special touch sequences. This form of body work (dearmouring) brings with it increased sensitivity and a heightened sense of pleasure and often leads to a feeling of vitality, joy and balance.
In addition, I offer meditative floating, bondage massage, Reiki applications and hypnosis to support your relaxation.
Feedback:
"Dear Thomas,
It's been a few weeks since you massaged me, but the memory of it still lingers in every cell. It was your masculine presence that allowed my femininity to blossom. I thought I knew tantra massages. Not even close. What I was allowed to experience was the real touch from heart to heart, into which I was allowed to fall full of trust, carried by you without having to maintain any control. What I was allowed to experience went very deep. What every woman longs for, to be recognized in her innermost being and to really feel like "the goddess" in this moment, you have succeeded. My pelvis eventually felt as wide as the universe. I was completely there at the same time and yet in other spheres. A lot is written and talked about tantra and a lot of it is empty phrases that are not felt and have no content. It's different with you. You can feel that Tantra not only has its place within the massage for you, but runs through your life and leads you to ever deeper insights. THAT touches. The more man is MAN, in the best way, the more woman is allowed to be WOMAN. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for this wonderful experience and I look forward to the next time, which will definitely happen."
Feedback:
"I can only recommend everyone to book a tantra massage with him. His hands have that certain something that enchants you. It puts the body in high tension.
What I found wonderful that he came to my apartment. Because I am disabled. Important to know for older people who, like me, also have a handicap.
I would also like to say that more people, women and men, should have the courage to experience the massage.
That's all I can say. Anyone who has experienced it once will never forget being touched so lovingly.
Thank you for this wonderful time close by."
Feedback:
"For your special attention and very sensitive support with my special situation after my breast cancer, which has disfigured me physically for 1 year.
You have touched me deeply like no one has been able to before and it was only through your presence that I really felt wholeheartedly accepted by you as a woman and carried very lovingly after the loss of my left breast. A moment that, through your patience, caused a very deep release of my pain in me.
After this special way of appreciating you, I could now really feel free to enjoy your massage to the fullest, completely detached!
Thank you from the bottom of my heart for this wonderful, very valuable experience with you!
I was allowed to be myself, to feel whole deep inside, to fly again.
To this day I have the feeling of the intimate hug and your loving touch.
I will be happy to trace this liberation again and again and with all my heart I will flow more and more!
From the bottom of my heart THANK YOU THOMAS
have you in my heart
All the best"
Feedback:
"Since I have enjoyed various massages, including erotic ones by men, but never a tantra massage, I was very curious about what to expect.
You explained it to me in detail and gave me the courage to let me fall into your hands. Your massages relieved my tension and also my headache before you switched to the lingam massage.
I was so relaxed and enjoyed this special massage, but I felt early on that I would not be able to achieve a normal orgasm from this deep relaxation.
I was all the more astonished and carried away by what I was allowed to experience - I'll call it a dry "head orgasm" that lasted for a long time, even after you had already stopped touching. My feelings ran away with me and the tears ran. You gave me the courage to let it flow and you held and caught me very emotionally. I thank you especially for that. That showed your professionalism."
Dates & Facts
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Experience
seit 2014 Tantramasseur TMV
seit 2015 Tantramasseur und Ausbilder bei "Anlea"
seit 2018 Sexualbegleiter ISBB
seit 2018 Tantramasseur, Sexualbegleiter und Ausbilder bei "Tantrawelten"
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Languages
English, German, Dutch -
Qualifications
Tantric Massage Practitioner TMV®
Background & Training
10/2014 – now
Tantramasseur TMV
12/2021
Der Yager-Code bei N. Preetz und E.Yager, Preetz-Hypnose
11/2021
The Pleasure Principle: How to Become a Sexual Healer bei Barbara Carrellas, Urban Tantra
08/2020
Hypnotische Orgasmuskontrolle bei Undine de Rivière, BDSM-Hypnose-Seminar
08/2020
meditativ Flogging bei Mag Ela,
08/2020
erotische Hypnose II, bei Undine de Rivière, BDSM-Hypnose-Seminar
07/2020
Erotische Hypnose I, bei Undine de Rivière, BDSM-Hypnose-Seminar
05/2019
Shibari, Massage und Atem bei Robert Kriz und Marion May
04/2019
ISBB: Arbeit gegen sexualisierte Übergriffe bei Lothar Sandfort
03/2019
energetic full body orgasm bei Andrew Barnes
10/2018
Flug des Phönix - dynamische Massage bei Nhanga Grunow, Didi Liebold, Petra Hällfritzsch
07/2018
Yoniheilmassage bei Elvira Malinovskaa, Jembatan
06/2018
Fesselmassage bei Kaya Köhn und Julia Dietz
04/2018
Vertiefung und Initiation bei Tegtmeier und Göbel, TantraConnection
03/2018
Tantric Domination bei Apollo Adama, TheNewTantra
07/2017 – 02/2018
Sexualbegleitung für Menschen mit Handicap bei ISBB-Trebel
01/2018
Becken-, Anal- und Prostatamassage bei Tegtmeier und Göbel, TantraConnection
11/2017
Kaschmirische Massage bei Dick Nijssen, Helios
10/2017
Umgang mit Sexualität von Menschen mit geistigen Behinderungen bei F Bottinga, proFamilia
09/2017
Tantra meets Handicap bei Deva Bhusha
05/2017
Shibari-Workshop bei Asmondeno
04/2017
Sexual Deconditioning / Advanced Sex bei Frank Bottema, TheNewTantra
03/2017
Childhood deconditioning bei Puja Lepp, TheNewTantra
02/2017
De-Armouring Training 2 bei Susanne Roursgaard
02/2017
Tantra & Shibari bei tantra-atma/naturalbliss
11/2016
"Living in Flow" Transmission Training bei Alex Vartman, TheNewTantra
10/2016
De-Armouring Training bei De'an Matuka, LoveCore
07/2016
G-Punkt, A-Punkt, weibliche Ejakulation bei Nhanga Grunow
04/2016
Sexual Deconditioning / Advanced Sex bei Bea Dominic, TheNewTantra
07/2015
Rotes Tantra / Tantrazirkel bei Manuel Hirning, Yoga-Vidya
06/2015
Hypnose bei Alfred Himmelweiß
05/2015
Tantramassage bei Anlea
03/2015
SET Sexuelle Tiefenentspannung bei Nhanga Grunow
02/2015
Ganzheitliche Fußmassage bei Elfriede Vogt, Paracelsus Heilpraktikerschule
01/2015
Becken-, Anal- und Prostatamassage bei Tegtmeier und Göbel, TantraConnection
10/2014
Tantric Massage Practitioner TMV®
09/2014
Yoni- & Lingammassage bei Tegtmeier und Göbel, TantraConnection
07/2014
Rotes Tantra bei Manuel Hirning, Sukha Tantra Yoga
12/2013
Reiki Meister
10/2013
Lomi Lomi Nui Massage bei Jörg Weppner, Paracelsus Heilpraktikerschule
01/1982
freiberuflicher Künstler und Dozent
10/1974 – 01/1979
Studium Germanistik und Kunst (Nebenfächer: Pädagogik und Psychologie) in Essen
Directions
Praxis für Entspannung
41366 Schwalmtal
+49 (0)2436 3825076
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Tantra-Welten
47199 Duisburg-Baerl
02841-9815073
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