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Tantra-Massage Duisburg

Thomas Aeffner

Schwalmtal, Duisburg

Main offers: Tantra massage for men and women, soft Dearmouring, touch coaching, sexual accompaniment, relaxation aid through hypnosis

0151 12722218


I like to massage and accompany "seniors" and handicapped people.


Certified Tantric Massage
Massage Coaching
other offers


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As a musician brings a song to life, an actor brings a piece to life, so for me the tantra massage is an applied form of art. In my "past life" I was a painter. When that was no longer possible for me, I dedicated myself to the same passion of tantra massage. If I have previously moved people deeply through my pictures, then this happens quite directly: I not only call joy and pleasure out of the touch of the body, but also touch the soul when the human being is open to it.

Tantra and Tantra massage has been my concern for many years - at first only in theory. My spiritual quest has brought me to other practices: autogenic training, tarot, yoga, and reiki. It was only when there were drastic changes in my life that I made the decision to really get on that path. And I have not regretted to lovingly accept life, as it is, to acknowledge the bond with all that is, to feel affectionately connected with the people I meet. The tantra massage is for me the expression of lived love that has become real.

In the massage I am in a meditative state: surrendered and yet completely awake, completely with my counterpart and yet completely with me.

You are welcome to me as a man or woman, a handicapped person ... as you are. I see in the massage the personality of the person in his body. I accept you as you are, I touch your soul through the skin - in love.

To put yourself in the hands of a mindful man as a woman - who is in the touch only for you, who wants nothing from you to whom you can confidently surrender, who puts himself in your service - can bring you a hitherto unknown sense of well-being , Even the consequences of unhealthy experiences, even of abuse, can be so alleviated and resolved, as your self-healing powers activate and thus make you whole again.

With me you can also learn more about your ability for female ejaculation.

The man-to-man massage is a unique experience: powerful, energetic. Even if your orientation is heterosexual, this experience of meeting male energies can be an unimagined enrichment.

If you live in circumstances that deny you the loving touch, I look forward to showing you how good it feels to experience tenderness.

It is your birthright to be happy - I like to accompany you on the way there.

Touch makes you happy!

As a massage therapist, I have been particularly trained in the healing of yoni.

Special forms of Yoni massage are particularly suitable for releasing blockages in the genital area and stimulating the self-healing powers of the yoni and the entire pelvic area. Through my previous training, I support men and women to become aware of their physical blockages, especially in the pelvic area, and to bring them through special touch sequences in flow and dissolve. This form of bodywork (Dearmouring) brings with it increased sensibility and an increased sense of pleasure and often leads to experiencing oneself as more vital, joyful and more in balance.

In addition, I offer Reiki stunts and hypnosis to support your relaxation.

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"Dear Thomas,

It has been a few weeks since you massaged me, but the memory still resonates in every cell. It was your male presence that made my femininity blossom. I thought I know Tantra massages. Not even close. What I experienced was the true heart-to-heart touch that allowed me to fall in with confidence, carried by you, without having to maintain any control. What I was allowed to experience went very deep. The thing that every woman yearns to be recognized in her heart and really feel like "the goddess" in that moment, you have succeeded. My pelvis felt as far as the universe at some point. At the same time I was completely there and yet in other spheres. There is a lot of writing and talking about tantra and much of it is empty phrases that are not felt and have no content. It's different with you. You can feel that Tantra not only has its place inside the massage, but also pervades your life and leads you into deeper and deeper insights. THAT touches. The more MAN is MAN, in the best way, the more MRS MRS may be. I thank you from the bottom of my heart for this wonderful experience and look forward to a next time, which will definitely be there. "

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"I can only recommend anyone to book a tantric massage with him, his hands have that certain something that enchants you.

What I found wonderful that he came to my apartment. Because I am handicapped. Important to know for older people who have a handicap like me.

Also, I would like to appeal that more people, women and men, should have the courage to experience the massage.

I can only say that. Anyone who has experienced it will not forget to be so lovingly touched.

Thank you for this wonderful time near you. "

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"For your special mindfulness and very very sensitive companionship with my special situation, after my breast cancer, which has disfigured me physically for 1 year.

You have touched me like no one else has been able to, deeply touched and through your presence I only really felt about my loss of the left breast of you with all my heart as a woman and very lovingly worn. A moment that, through your patience, has created a very deep release of my pain in me.

After this special kind of appreciation I could really feel free to enjoy your massage to the fullest!

I wholeheartedly thank you for this wonderful, very valuable experience with you!

I was allowed to be myself, to feel completely deep inside to fly again.

To this day, I have the feeling of heartfelt embrace and your loving touch.

Will feel like this liberation again and again and come with all your heart more and more in the flow!

With all my heart THANKS THOMAS

Have you in my heart

All the best"

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"Since I have come to enjoy various massages, even more erotic by men, but never a tantric massage, I was very new to what awaits me.

You explained it to me in detail and gave you the courage to let me fall into your hands. Your massages have removed my tension and my headache before you went to the lingam massage.

I was so relaxed and enjoyed this special massage, but I felt early on that just because of this deep relaxation I would not come to a normal orgasm.

All the more surprised me and then what I was allowed to experience then - I call it a dry "Kopforgasmus", which lasted long, even when you had already finished your touch. My feelings went through with me and the tears were running. You have given me the courage to let it flow and have kept me very emotional and caught. I especially thank you for that. That showed your professionalism. "

Dates & Facts

  • Experience

    seit 2014 Tantramasseur TMV

    seit 2015 Tantramasseur und Ausbilder bei "Anlea"

  • Languages

    English, German, Dutch
  • Qualifications

    Tantric Massage Practitioner TMV®

Background & Training

10/2014 – now

Tantramasseur TMV


Flug des Phönix - dynamische Massage bei Nhanga Grunow, Didi Liebold, Petra Hällfritzsch


Yoniheilmassage bei Elvira Malinovskaa, Jembatan


Fesselmassage bei Kaya Köhn und Julia Dietz


Vertiefung und Initiation bei Tegtmeier und Göbel, TantraConnection


Tantric Domination bei Apollo Adama, The New Tantra

07/2017 – 02/2018

Sexualbegleitung für Menschen mit Handicap bei ISBB-Trebel


Becken-, Anal- und Prostatamassage bei Tegtmeier und Göbel, TantraConnection


Kaschmirische Massage bei Dick Nijssen, Helios


Umgang mit Sexualität von Menschen mit geistigen Behinderungen bei F Bottinga, proFamilia


Tantra meets Handicap bei Deva Bhusha


Shibari-Workshop bei Asmondeno


Sexual Deconditioning / Advanced Sex bei Frank Bottema, TheNewTantra


Childhood deconditioning bei Puja Lepp, TheNewTantra


Tantra & Shibari bei tantra-atma/naturalbliss


De-Armouring Training 2 bei Susanne Roursgaard


"Living in Flow" Transmission Training bei Alex Vartman, TheNewTantra


De-Armouring Training bei De'an Matuka (LoveCore)


G-Punkt, A-Punkt, weibliche Ejakulation bei Nhanga Grunow


Sexual Deconditioning / Advanced Sex bei Bea Dominic, TheNewTantra


Rotes Tantra / Tantrazirkel bei Manuel Hirning, Yoga-Vidya


Hypnose bei Alfred Himmelweiß


Tantramassage bei Anlea


SET Sexuelle Tiefenentspannung bei Nhanga Grunow


Ganzheitliche Fußmassage bei Elfriede Vogt, Paracelsus Heilpraktikerschule


Becken-, Anal- und Prostatamassage bei Tegtmeier und Göbel, TantraConnection


Tantric Massage Practitioner TMV®


Yoni- & Lingammassage bei Tegtmeier und Göbel, TantraConnection


Rotes Tantra bei Manuel Hirning, Sukha Tantra Yoga


Reiki Meister


Lomi Lomi Nui Massage bei Jörg Weppner, Paracelsus Heilpraktikerschule


freiberuflicher Künstler und Dozent

10/1974 – 01/1979

Studium Germanistik und Kunst (Nebenfächer: Pädagogik und Psychologie) in Essen


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41366 Schwalmtal
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