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Tantra-Massage Duisburg

Thomas Aeffner

Schwalmtal, Duisburg

Main offers: Tantra massage for women and men, sexual accompaniment, soft dearmouring, touch coaching, relaxation aid through hypnosis

0151 12722218


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I also like to massage and accompany "seniors" and people with disabilities.


Certified Tantric Massage
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Just as a musician brings a song to life, an actor brings a piece to life, for me, tantra massage is an applied form of art. In my "previous life" I was a painter. When that was no longer possible, I dedicated myself to tantra massage with the same passion. If I have previously moved people deeply through my pictures, this is now happening directly: by touching the body, I not only create joy and lust, but touch the soul when the person is open to it.

Tantra and Tantra massage have been with me for many years - initially only theoretically. My spiritual search has led me to other practices: autogenic training, tarot, yoga and reiki. It was only when there were drastic changes in my life that I decided to really take this path. And I have not regretted lovingly accepting life as it offers itself, acknowledging the connection with everything that is, feeling lovingly connected to the people I meet. For me, the tantra massage is the real expression of love.

In the massage I am in a meditative state: devoted and yet completely awake, completely with my counterpart and yet completely with myself.

You are welcome with me as a man or woman, person with a handicap ... just as you are. I see the personality of the person in his body during the massage. I accept you as you are, I touch your soul through the skin - in love.

Putting yourself as a woman in the hands of a mindful man - who is only there for you in touch, who doesn't want anything from you, who you can therefore give yourself to with confidence, who is at your service - can bring you an unprecedented sense of wellbeing . Even the consequences of bad experiences, even abuse, can be alleviated and resolved in this way, since your self-healing powers are activated and let you become whole again.

With me you can also learn more about your ability to ejaculate.

Massage from man to man is a unique experience: powerful, energetic. Even if your orientation is heterosexual, this experience of encountering male energies can be an unprecedented enrichment.

If you live in circumstances that prevent you from loving touch, I look forward to showing you again how good it feels to experience tenderness.

It is your birthright to be happy - I would be happy to accompany you on the way there.

Touch makes you happy!

As a massage therapist, I have trained myself particularly in healing the yoni.

Special forms of the yoni massage are particularly suitable for releasing blockages in the genital area and stimulating the self-healing powers of the yoni and the entire pelvic area. Through my previous training courses, I support men and women in becoming aware of their physical blockages, especially in the pelvic area, and by using special touch sequences to get them flowing and to let them dissolve. This form of body work (Dearmouring) brings with it an increased sensitivity and an increased sense of pleasure and often leads to the fact that one experiences oneself as vital, joyful and more in balance.

I also offer Reiki sessions and hypnosis to support your relaxation.

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"Dear Thomas,

It's been a few weeks since you massaged me, but the memory of it still lingers in every cell. It was your male presence that made my femininity blossom. I thought I knew tantra massages. Not even close. What I was allowed to experience was the real touch from heart to heart that I was allowed to fall into with confidence, carried by you without having to keep any control. What I was allowed to experience went very deep. What every woman longs for, to be recognized in her innermost and to really feel like "the goddess" at this moment, you have succeeded. My pelvis felt as wide as the universe at some point. I was completely there at the same time and yet in other spheres. There is a lot of writing and talking about tantra, and many of these are empty phrases that are not felt and have no content. It's different with you. You can feel that tantra not only has its place for you within the massage, but runs through your life and leads you to ever deeper insights. THAT touches. The more man is MAN, in the best way, the more woman may be WOMAN. I thank you from the bottom of my heart for this wonderful experience and I am looking forward to the next time there will definitely be. "

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"I can only recommend everyone to book a tantra massage with him. His hands have something that enchants you. It brings the body into high tension.

What I thought was wonderful that he came to my apartment. Because I am disabled. Important to know for older people who like me also have a handicap.

I would also like to mention that more people, women and men, should have the courage to experience the massage.

I can only say that. Anyone who has experienced it will never forget to be touched so lovingly.

Thank you for this wonderful time around. "

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"For your special mindfulness and very, very sensitive accompaniment with my special situation, after my breast cancer, which has disfigured me physically for 1 year.

You have touched me deeply like no one before, and it was only through your presence that I really felt whole-heartedly accepted by you as a woman about my loss of my left breast and carried it very, very lovingly. A moment that through your patience has caused a deep relief from my pain.

After this special kind of appreciation, I could really feel free to enjoy your massage to the fullest detached !!

With all my heart I thank you for this wonderful, very valuable experience with you!

I was allowed to be myself, to feel deep inside to fly again.

To this day I have the feeling of an intimate hug and your loving touch.

I will be happy to trace this liberation again and again and get more and more flowing with all my heart!

With all my heart THANKS THOMAS

Got you in my heart

All the best"

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"Since I have enjoyed various massages, more erotically from men, but have never had a tantra massage, I was very curious about what to expect.

You explained it to me in detail and gave you the courage to let me fall into your hands. Your massages let my tension and my headache evaporate before you started the Lingam massage.

I was so relaxed and enjoyed this special massage, but I felt early on that it would not lead to a normal orgasm just because of this deep relaxation.

The more I was amazed and carried away by what I was allowed to experience - I call it a dry "head orgasm" that lasted a long time, even after you had already finished your touch. My feelings went through me and the tears ran. You gave me the courage to let it flow and you kept me very emotional and absorbed it. I especially thank you for that. That showed your professionalism. "

Dates & Facts

  • Experience

    seit 2014 Tantramasseur TMV

    seit 2015 Tantramasseur und Ausbilder bei "Anlea"

  • Languages

    English, German, Dutch
  • Qualifications

    Tantric Massage Practitioner TMV®

Background & Training

10/2014 – now

Tantramasseur TMV


Shibari, Massage und Atem bei Robert Kriz und Marion May


ISBB: Arbeit gegen sexualisierte Übergriffe bei Lothar Sandfort


energetic full body orgasm bei Andrew Barnes


Flug des Phönix - dynamische Massage bei Nhanga Grunow, Didi Liebold, Petra Hällfritzsch


Yoniheilmassage bei Elvira Malinovskaa, Jembatan


Fesselmassage bei Kaya Köhn und Julia Dietz


Vertiefung und Initiation bei Tegtmeier und Göbel, TantraConnection


Tantric Domination bei Apollo Adama, The New Tantra

07/2017 – 02/2018

Sexualbegleitung für Menschen mit Handicap bei ISBB-Trebel


Becken-, Anal- und Prostatamassage bei Tegtmeier und Göbel, TantraConnection


Kaschmirische Massage bei Dick Nijssen, Helios


Umgang mit Sexualität von Menschen mit geistigen Behinderungen bei F Bottinga, proFamilia


Tantra meets Handicap bei Deva Bhusha


Shibari-Workshop bei Asmondeno


Sexual Deconditioning / Advanced Sex bei Frank Bottema, TheNewTantra


Childhood deconditioning bei Puja Lepp, TheNewTantra


De-Armouring Training 2 bei Susanne Roursgaard


Tantra & Shibari bei tantra-atma/naturalbliss


"Living in Flow" Transmission Training bei Alex Vartman, TheNewTantra


De-Armouring Training bei De'an Matuka (LoveCore)


G-Punkt, A-Punkt, weibliche Ejakulation bei Nhanga Grunow


Sexual Deconditioning / Advanced Sex bei Bea Dominic, TheNewTantra


Rotes Tantra / Tantrazirkel bei Manuel Hirning, Yoga-Vidya


Hypnose bei Alfred Himmelweiß


Tantramassage bei Anlea


SET Sexuelle Tiefenentspannung bei Nhanga Grunow


Ganzheitliche Fußmassage bei Elfriede Vogt, Paracelsus Heilpraktikerschule


Becken-, Anal- und Prostatamassage bei Tegtmeier und Göbel, TantraConnection


Tantric Massage Practitioner TMV®


Yoni- & Lingammassage bei Tegtmeier und Göbel, TantraConnection


Rotes Tantra bei Manuel Hirning, Sukha Tantra Yoga


Reiki Meister


Lomi Lomi Nui Massage bei Jörg Weppner, Paracelsus Heilpraktikerschule


freiberuflicher Künstler und Dozent

10/1974 – 01/1979

Studium Germanistik und Kunst (Nebenfächer: Pädagogik und Psychologie) in Essen


0151 12722218




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41366 Schwalmtal
+49 (0)2436 3825076
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