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Tantra-Massage Duisburg

Thomas Aeffner

Schwalmtal, Duisburg-Baerl

Main offers: Tantra massage for women and men, Yoni healing, sexual accompaniment, meditative flogging, touch coaching,

0151 12722218


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I am also happy to massage and accompany “seniors” and people with disabilities.


Certified Tantric Massage
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Just as a musician brings a song to life, an actor brings a piece to life, for me tantra massage is an applied form of art. In my “previous life” I was a painter. When that was no longer possible for me, I dedicated myself to tantra massage with the same passion. If I previously moved people deeply through my pictures, this now happens very directly: by touching the body I not only evoke joy and pleasure, but also touch the soul if the person is open to it.

I have been interested in tantra and tantra massage for many years - initially only theoretically. My spiritual search led me to other practices: autogenic training, tarot, yoga and reiki. It was only when drastic changes occurred in my life that I decided to really embark on this path. And I have not regretted lovingly accepting life as it presents itself, recognizing my connection to everything that is, and feeling lovingly connected to the people I meet. For me, the tantra massage is the real expression of lived love.

During the massage I am in a meditative state: surrendered and yet completely awake, completely with the other person and yet completely with myself.

You are welcome with me, as a man or woman or however you see yourself, as a person with a handicap... just as you are. During the massage I see the person's personality in their body. I accept you as you are, I touch your soul through your skin - with love.

Putting yourself as a woman in the hands of a mindful man - who is only there for you when you touch him, who doesn't want anything from you, to whom you can therefore trustfully surrender yourself, who puts himself at your service - can give you a previously unknown feeling of well-being . Even the consequences of bad experiences, even abuse, can be alleviated and resolved because your self-healing powers are activated and allow you to become whole and whole again.

With me you can also find out more about your ability to have female ejaculation.

The man-to-man massage is a unique experience: powerful, energetic. Even if your orientation is heterosexual, this experience of encountering male energies can be an unexpected enrichment.

If you live in circumstances that deny you loving touch, I look forward to showing you again how good it feels to experience tenderness.

It is your birthright to be happy - I would be happy to accompany you on the way there.

Touch makes you happy!

As a masseur, I have trained particularly in Yoni healing.

Special forms of Yoni massage are particularly suitable for releasing blockages in the genital area and stimulating the self-healing powers of the Yoni and the entire pelvic area. Through my previous training, I support people of all genders in becoming aware of their physical blockages, especially in the pelvic area, and in bringing them into flow and allowing them to dissolve through special touch sequences. This form of body work (dearmouring) brings with it increased sensitivity and an increased sense of pleasure and often leads to one experiencing oneself as more vital, more joyful and more in balance.

I also offer meditative flogging, bondage massages, Reiki treatments and hypnosis to support your relaxation.

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"Dear Thomas,

It's been a few weeks since you massaged me, but the memory of it still resonates in every cell. It was your masculine presence that was able to make my femininity blossom. I thought I knew tantric massages. Not even close. What I was able to experience was the real touch from heart to heart into which I was allowed to let myself fall with full trust, supported by you, without having to maintain any control. What I was able to experience went very deep. You have achieved what every woman longs for, to be recognized in her innermost being and to really feel like “the goddess” in this moment. At some point my pelvis felt as wide as the universe. At the same time I was completely there and yet in other spheres. A lot is written and talked about Tantra and a lot of it is empty words that are not felt and have no content. It's different for you. You can feel that Tantra not only has its place for you within the massage, but also permeates your life and leads you into ever deeper insights. THAT touches. The more a man is a MAN, in the best way, the more a woman can be a WOMAN. I thank you from the bottom of my heart for this wonderful experience and look forward to the next time, which there will definitely be."

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"I can only recommend everyone to book a tantra massage with him. His hands have that certain something that enchants you. Brings your body into high tension.

What I found wonderful was that he came to my apartment. Because I am disabled. Important to know for older people who, like me, also have a handicap.

I would also like to say that more people, women and men, should have the courage to experience the massage.

That's all I can say. Anyone who has experienced it once will never forget being touched so lovingly.

Thank you for this wonderful time of closeness."

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"For your special attentiveness and very, very sensitive support with my special situation after my breast cancer, which has left me physically disfigured for a year.

You touched me deeply like no one else had been able to before and it was only through your presence that I felt that I was truly accepted by you as a woman with all my heart and carried very lovingly over the loss of my left breast. A moment that, through your patience, brought about a very deep release of my pain in me.

After this special kind of appreciation, I could now really feel free to enjoy your massage to the fullest and completely detached!!

I thank you from the bottom of my heart for this wonderful, very valuable experience with you!

I was allowed to be completely myself, to feel whole deep inside, to fly again.

To this day I still have the feeling of your intimate embrace and your loving touch.

I will always be happy to pursue this liberation and to flow more and more with all my heart!

THANK YOU THOMAS from the bottom of my heart

Have you in my heart

All love"

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"Since I have enjoyed various massages, including erotic ones, from men, but never a tantra massage, I was very curious about what to expect.

You explained it to me in detail and gave me the courage to let me fall into your hands. Your massages made my tension and also my headache disappear before you moved on to the lingam massage.

I was so relaxed and enjoyed this special massage, but I felt early on that I wouldn't be able to have a normal orgasm, especially from this deep relaxation.

I was even more amazed and carried away by what I was able to experience - I call it a dry "head orgasm" that lasted a long time, even after you had already stopped touching me. My emotions ran wild and tears flowed. You gave me the courage to let it flow and held and absorbed me very emotionally. I especially thank you for that. That showed your professionalism."

Dates & Facts

  • Experience

    seit 2014 Tantramasseur TMV

    seit 2015 Tantramasseur und Ausbilder bei "Anlea"

    seit 2018 Sexualbegleiter ISBB

    seit 2018 Tantramasseur, Sexualbegleiter und Ausbilder bei "Tantrawelten"

  • Languages

    English, German, Dutch
  • Qualifications

    Tantric Massage Practitioner TMV®

Background & Training

10/2014 – now

Tantramasseur TMV


Der Yager-Code bei N. Preetz und E.Yager, Preetz-Hypnose


The Pleasure Principle: How to Become a Sexual Healer bei Barbara Carrellas, Urban Tantra


Hypnotische Orgasmuskontrolle bei Undine de Rivière, BDSM-Hypnose-Seminar


meditativ Flogging bei Mag Ela,


erotische Hypnose II, bei Undine de Rivière, BDSM-Hypnose-Seminar


Erotische Hypnose I, bei Undine de Rivière, BDSM-Hypnose-Seminar


Shibari, Massage und Atem bei Robert Kriz und Marion May


ISBB: Arbeit gegen sexualisierte Übergriffe bei Lothar Sandfort


energetic full body orgasm bei Andrew Barnes


Flug des Phönix - dynamische Massage bei Nhanga Grunow, Didi Liebold, Petra Hällfritzsch


Yoniheilmassage bei Elvira Malinovskaa, Jembatan


Fesselmassage bei Kaya Köhn und Julia Dietz


Vertiefung und Initiation bei Tegtmeier und Göbel, TantraConnection


Tantric Domination bei Apollo Adama, TheNewTantra

07/2017 – 02/2018

Sexualbegleitung für Menschen mit Handicap bei ISBB-Trebel


Becken-, Anal- und Prostatamassage bei Tegtmeier und Göbel, TantraConnection


Kaschmirische Massage bei Dick Nijssen, Helios


Umgang mit Sexualität von Menschen mit geistigen Behinderungen bei F Bottinga, proFamilia


Tantra meets Handicap bei Deva Bhusha


Shibari-Workshop bei Asmondeno


Sexual Deconditioning / Advanced Sex bei Frank Bottema, TheNewTantra


Childhood deconditioning bei Puja Lepp, TheNewTantra


Tantra & Shibari bei tantra-atma/naturalbliss


De-Armouring Training 2 bei Susanne Roursgaard


"Living in Flow" Transmission Training bei Alex Vartman, TheNewTantra


De-Armouring Training bei De'an Matuka, LoveCore


G-Punkt, A-Punkt, weibliche Ejakulation bei Nhanga Grunow


Sexual Deconditioning / Advanced Sex bei Bea Dominic, TheNewTantra


Rotes Tantra / Tantrazirkel bei Manuel Hirning, Yoga-Vidya


Hypnose bei Alfred Himmelweiß


Tantramassage bei Anlea


SET Sexuelle Tiefenentspannung bei Nhanga Grunow


Ganzheitliche Fußmassage bei Elfriede Vogt, Paracelsus Heilpraktikerschule


Becken-, Anal- und Prostatamassage bei Tegtmeier und Göbel, TantraConnection


Tantric Massage Practitioner TMV®


Yoni- & Lingammassage bei Tegtmeier und Göbel, TantraConnection


Rotes Tantra bei Manuel Hirning, Sukha Tantra Yoga


Reiki Meister


Lomi Lomi Nui Massage bei Jörg Weppner, Paracelsus Heilpraktikerschule


freiberuflicher Künstler und Dozent

10/1974 – 01/1979

Studium Germanistik und Kunst (Nebenfächer: Pädagogik und Psychologie) in Essen


0151 12722218

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