Connie Eberhart
Boulder, CO
I help INDIVIDUALS repair and re-pattern physical and emotional blocks to their vitality and their desire, so that as a COUPLE they may experience deeper intimacy, authentic connection and greater sexual satisfaction.
Philosophy
To have pleasure, one must first have a Self. Most of us are functioning with very distorted perceptions of self, and inhabiting bodies that are holding on to experiences, stories, conditioning and survival strategies from the past. Therefore, we are operating from fragmented parts of ourselves that are rarely in present moment awareness. Our nervous system no longer knows how to feel landed, grounded, safe, and capable of identifying and reaching for what we desire. Or perhaps we no longer even know what it IS that we desire!
What once seemingly "worked" as it relates to sexual expression has usually been built upon the foundation of (first, from a lack of accurate sexual education) scripts, conditioning, enduring, shame, performance and/or unconscious protective strategies from past overwhelming experiences or boundary violations.
It is imperative that we feel safe in our own bodies. That we feel connected to Self and compelled to identify and reach for what brings us alive. To connect with and attune to others. To unravel survival strategies, imprints and social conditioning that cause fractures within ourselves, and our relations to others. Especially with our intimate partner(s)! Can you imagine how different your world will be, even the world will be, when we begin to make this a priority?! THIS IS WHERE I CAN SUPPORT YOU!
For over 3 decades, I have been facilitating conversations and experiences around health, wellness, and making conscious choices to support personal - and cultural - growth and transformation.
In 2015 my work expanded to include The Physiology of Trauma + The Neurobiology of Connection + The Science of Pleasure & Sexuality. After all, how can we truly be FULLY WHOLE and AUTHENTICALLY EXPRESSED if we do not include examining and cultivating our Erotic Nature?!
I have personally trained with many of the leading experts, and have been certified in numerous methodologies that uniquely qualify me to provide hands-on, trauma-informed, client-centered and somatic-based support that addresses sexual challenges and individual trauma at the root level; including chronic, complex, developmental and relational traumas.
Over the last 10 years, I have worked with several hundreds of individuals and couples who desire to experience not only vitality in their own body and life, but also crave the deep intimate connection and sexual satisfaction that reflects the deep love that they have for one another.
I believe that when you get to the root of what is causing you to feel disconnected from the fullness of your own agency and sexuality, your expression and satisfaction in sexuality and ALL aspects of your life will be enhanced through this true healing and transformational journey!
Lover's Immersion Retreats
Couples travel from around the world to work with me for a range of 3-6 days, with virtual integrative support afterwards. Think of this as your very own "Sex, Love & Goop" Experience!
Some Areas of Exploration:
- Exploring and playing with communicating your desires and fantasies
- Healing past trauma or boundary violations/Freeing yourself from shame
- How to discover your authentic sexual desire/Erotic Blueprint™
- Learning to clearly define your "yes's" and your "no's", and to communicate them
- How to talk with your partner about what you really want
- Continue deepening your sexual connection within long-term relationships
- Bringing sensual kink and playful power dynamics into the bedroom
- Overcome sexual concerns, such as painful sex, low libido, ED, PE, etc.
- If you are newly single, how to get back out into the dating world again, knowing what you want!
- May include enrollment in Jaiya's online Blueprint Breakthrough Course
Dates & Facts
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Experience
Experiential Education/Leadership Training (25+ years)
Apprenticeship with Jaiya, 2013 onward
Bondassage™ Practitioner, 2015, Now a Trainer
Certified Sexological Bodyworker, 2016 & 2018
STREAM certified, with Ellen Heed, 2018
Certified Accelerated Evolution Transformation Coach, 2019
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Languages
English -
Qualifications
Certified Sexological Bodyworker
Background & Training
10/2017 – now
Erotic Blueprint™ Lead Coach + Master Trainer
01/2017 – now
STREAM (scar tissue remediation, education & mgmt w/Ellen Heed
01/1995 – 12/2016
Experiential Education, Intra- and Interpersonal Growth & Development
Certified Sexological Bodyworker
Directions
Embody Pleasure
2525 Arapahoe Avenue
80302 Boulder, CO
310-774-6422
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