

Lex
Cheshire, UK, Online
I create permissive environments for people to explore their unique pleasure identity, play with their erotic edges, and express their desires and needs in an empowered way. See more at https://www.pleasurerebels.com
Philosophy
"People say that what we’re all seeking is a meaning for life. I don’t think that’s what we’re really seeking. I think that what we’re seeking is an experience of being alive." Joseph Campbell
I am a sex and kink educator working with individuals and groups of all genders who wish to explore the themes of sexuality, intimacy, identity, relating, and power.
I believe that most of us didn't receive the sex education we needed. We have been led to believe that there's a "one size fits all" way to experience intimacy and pleasure and that is causing so much unnecessary suffering. In my mind, there are as many forms of pleasure as there are people!
Despite being a fundamental component of happiness, pleasure is often an area in which people can experience the most shame, guilt, embarrassment, and fear. We start to believe we are "weird", "abnormal", or even "wrong" if we dare to step outside of societal norms. If we have kinks or fetishes, don't feel romantically or sexually attracted to the people we are "supposed to", or if we feel different in our bodies than how they appear externally, then the world becomes a very confusing place.
My work is all about creating a space in which we can explore the unknown, REALLY listen to what our bodies desire, and learn how to embrace and communicate that in an empowered way.
When we have pleasure in our lives, we are able to show up with all of our passion, curiosity, and authenticity for ourselves, our relationships, work, and communities. That feels pretty important - and very much needed - right now.
A big focus of my work is around how kink - done ethically - can be used as a route to empowerment and us becoming whole, integrated humans.
In addition to my professional training, I draw upon personal experience in embodied practices, alternative relating dynamics, and conscious sexuality, BDSM, kink, and LGBTQIA+ communities.
Dates & Facts
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Languages
English -
Qualifications
Certified Sexological Bodyworker
Background & Training
10/2023 – 11/2023
06/2023
09/2022
10/2021 – 07/2022
09/2021
02/2021 – 09/2021
09/2020 – 12/2020
01/2020 – 10/2020
09/2019 – 10/2019