Nicole

Sexual counseling and Coachings also by phone / zoom / skype!

Counseling and coaching sessions in English, i.e. via phone, zoom or skype! German text – scroll down!

online workshop

An individual intimate massage workshop, just for you or for you as a couple, via Zoom or Skype. First I will give you some theoretical information about female or male sexuality, depending on which workshop you choose. Then I'll show you a variety of intimate massage grips on a silicone model in great detail. You also have the opportunity to discuss individual questions with me. Duration of the workshop: 1.5 hours, promotional price 119 EUR.

sex counseling

I offer you to talk openly with me about everything that's on your mind during this challenging time. Perhaps it is the issues in your sexuality in particular that you would like to change, explore or even just understand. It can be anything, I advise on all questions such as: premature ejaculation, lack of erections, orgasms, physical sensations or even porn consumption, sexual fantasies, lack of desire in the partnership, not being able to allow much intimacy, etc. Maybe you just have questions , which you have always wanted to ask, you are also welcome with that. I am happy to take the time to discuss your concerns via Skype or Zoom. Duration and costs are individual depending on the request. If you would like to talk to me, please send me a short message.

Education and career:

Certified tantra masseuse (TMV®) according to the criteria of the Tantra Massage Association

Training in " Sexological Bodywork " and "Sexological Body Therapy" at the IISB, Zurich (somatic sex education). Approved by the Association of Somatic and Integrative Sexologists (ASIS)

Somatic sex counseling ( IISB Zurich)

ThaiYoga teacher (according to Tobias Frank)

Pelvis Work Practitioner ( IISB Zurich)

Member of the Tantric Massage Association (TMV®)

Member of EASB (European Association of Sexological Bodyworkers)

Member of "Trusted Bodywork "

Massage management at AnandaWave, Cologne, regular seminar management.

Trained in classic tantra massage, yoni/lingam massage, dealing with sexual disorders in tantra massage, pelvic floor, anal and prostate massage, four-hand massage, women's massage, Thai yoga massage

Regular further training, e.g. in deep sexual relaxation, orgasmic meditation, yoni massages (yoni communication, yoni as a sensing organ, yoni decongestion, yoni impulse therapy, yoni point press), intuitive massages, sensual meditations, Tao massage

Many years of spiritual self-awareness through self-awareness groups and seminars, systemic constellation work, kinesiology, meditation

For sex counseling:

In my work as a sexological body therapist, I create a learning space for my clients, which means that we shed light on a topic in sexuality that my client would like to change, explore, or maybe just understand. This can be anything, all topics related to erections, orgasms, ejaculations, body sensations or porn consumption, fantasies, lack of desire in the partnership, being able to allow little intimacy, improving one's own sensitivity, etc. We then work in a mixture of conversation and possibly body work on it. A few sessions are often enough to change something.

I like to accompany couples in practicing communication with each other about wishes and worries, desire and reluctance to get to know each other better and to deal carefully and lovingly with the bright and dark sides of their sexuality.

For the massage:

I came to the tantra massage years ago, originally "only" to feel my body again and to get in touch with myself. I wanted to create a connection between mind and body, without demands and demands from the outside, without having to achieve anything.

My experiences, which I was allowed to have through the tantric massage rituals, can hardly be described in words, they have touched me deeply and changed me. I suddenly felt in the right place, in an atmosphere of appreciative, healing and sensual touch. There it was, the answer to a longing that I had always felt inside of me, but could not grasp because up until then I had not been clear about what I was actually looking for. The mindful tantric bodywork awakened healing processes in me, opened my heart and soul and brought me into contact with my femininity.

Giving massages is my heart's calling, I want to meet people deeply, touch body and soul. For me, tantra massage is about simply being present, accepting what is, and being open to what may arise. As a masseuse, I don't have to "achieve" anything, reach no goal, and neither does the person I'm allowed to touch. I respect people in their life history, character and personality so that they feel completely accepted. I don't judge. I meet the other in a loving, empathetic attitude full of affection and allow a deep connection.

I accept you as a person just the way you are. Make peace with your insecurities and fears, forget clothing sizes or social norms. I see the beauty in you, adore your body and soul. Every person, every body is unique and beautiful in itself, a miracle! Enjoy yourself, feel into yourself and let yourself fall into your experience!

Training and career:

Certified Tantra Massage Therapist (TMV®) according to the criteria of the Tantra Massage Association eV

Training in " Sexological Bodywork " and " Sexological Body Therapy" at the IISB, Zurich ( Somatic Sex Education ). Recognized by the Association of Somatic and Integrative Sexologists (ASIS)

Thai Yoga teacher (after Tobias Frank)

Pelvic Work Practitioner ( IISB Zurich)

Member of the Tantric Massage Association (TMV®)

Member of the EASB (European Association of Sexological Bodyworkers)

Member of "Trusted Bodywork "

Massage co-director at AnandaWave, Cologne. Regular seminar facilitator.

Trained in classic tantric massage, yoni / lingam massage, dealing with sexual disorders in tantric massage, pelvic floor, anal and prostate massage, four-hand massage, female massage, Thai yoga massage

Regular training, eg in deep sexual relaxation, orgasmic meditation, Yoni massages (Yoni communication, Yoni as a sense organ, Yoni decongestion, Yoni impulse therapy, Yoni Point Press), intuitive massages, sensual meditations, Tao massage

Long-term spiritual self-experience through self-experience groups and seminars, systemic constellation work, kinesiology, meditation

Sexual Counseling:

In my work as a sexological body therapist, I create a learning space for my clients, which means that we illuminate a topic that my client would like to change, explore, or maybe even just understand. This can be anything, all topics related to erections, orgasms, ejaculations, body sensations or porn consumption, fantasies, lack of pleasure in the partnership, lack of intimacy, improving one's own sense of perceiving, etc. We work onit in a mixture of conversation and possibly bodywork . Often, a few sessions are enough to make a change.

I like to accompany couples in practicing communication with each other about desires and worries, lust and reluctance, to get to know each other better and to deal attentively and lovingly with the bright and dark sides of their sexuality.

Massage:

I discovered the tantra massage years ago, originally “only” to feel my body again and to get in contact with me. I wanted to establish a connection between mind and body, without external demands and expectations, without having to do anything.

My own experiences, which I was allowed to have through the tantra massages, can hardly be described in words, they touched and changed me deeply. I was suddenly in the right place, in an atmosphere of mindful, healing and sensual touch. There it was, the answer to a longing that I had always felt, but hadn't been able to grasp, because until then it was not clear to me what I was actually looking for. Mindful tantric bodywork has awakened healing processes in me, opened my heart and soul and made me more feminine.

I feel that giving massages is a call from my heart, I want to meet people in depth, touch body and soul. For me, the tantra massage is about being present, accepting what is, and being open to what may come up. As a masseuse, I don't expect anything, I don't have to achieve a goal, and neither does the person I am allowed to touch. I respect people with their life history, character and personality so that they feel completely accepted. I don't judge. I treat the other person in a loving, empathetic attitude, full of care and allow a deep connection.

You are accepted by me as the person you are. Make up for your insecurities and fears, forget about clothing sizes or social norms. I see the beauty in you, I adore your body and your soul. Every person, every body is unique and beautiful in itself, a miracle! Enjoy yourself, feel inside yourself and let yourself fall into your experience!

A selection of feedback:

This year I'm floating on a quiet little cloud called "self-love" and I want to let you know in the evening hour,

that it's me who feels indebted. Not because of the pressure formed by society on my soul, no simply because of the wonderfully soothing and sensual emotional touch that your hands touched my self today.

The scent of the oils used is still as sensitive on my skin as your familiar, warm voice vibrates in my ear. In my opinion, this exciting and at the same time redeeming experience, guided by you in a room full of comfort, cannot be typified and therefore I do not give it a label. It was and is my best Christmas present for what feels like an eternity.

I'm looking forward to it and say goodbye in the hope that you spend a pleasant evening.

I would like to thank you for your sensitive and extraordinary massage. Your positive charisma and friendly smile gave me a good and safe feeling right from the start. Even in the conversation before, during and after the massage, you always found the right words and picked me up from where I was in my mind.
As you may have noticed, talking about intimate things/desires is very difficult for me. Your words about "saying what you want" really got me thinking. I still see great potential for myself here
Thank you for this special experience.
Best regards
C. 09/03/2018

In my mind I'm sitting across from you again... the open smile, the beautiful woman, with the great figure... you guided, steered, touched and gifted me. It was touching, it was warm, your breath caresses my face, I felt kissed like a snowflake.. my thoughts were flying, and suddenly stayed still...the lust wanted more and more and I ran after her. It was so nice to feel your soft skin on mine...you guided me, touched me, gave me gifts. Looking forward to another "experience" Thank you...
Love and warm regards M. 08/27/2018

I thank you! For your empathy, your femininity, for space, for timelessness, for closeness....
And thanks for the tips - wow - a whole treasure chest full - I'll see what's available for me.
Kind regards, H., 08/14/2018


Things are going great! The massage also allowed me to relax very deeply afterwards and showed me that there is definitely still a lot to discover.
Thank you for the wonderful hours and the range of information! That should keep me busy for a while
I felt completely comfortable with you.
Kind regards, P. 05/02/2018


Good morning,
I'm already in the office quite early again, but I still live a lot(!) from your massage yesterday.
The massage itself and every physical contact with you was a wonderful experience for me, for which I would like to thank you again. My emotional world got mixed up several times and I often tried to get myself back on track quickly. You touched places and points in me that triggered a lot in me and where I had never been touched before. It just broke out of me and I still feel your energy and your actions very sustainably.
After the massage, I would have preferred not to take a shower either, so that I could continue to feel the oil and the smells that remind me of your touch. But even after the shower yesterday and today, the scent is still in my nose today and triggers a very good, warm feeling in me.
Yesterday, however, I was amazed at the physical after-effects. I never expected that the massage would exhaust me so much. I don't know if that's normal, but even though I was only passive, it really put a strain on my body, which is actually used to a lot through sport. I can't really explain it, but your touch triggered a lot in my body.
If it was pleasant for you too, I would like to repeat this experience with you again and then I'm sure I won't seem so lost anymore and I can deal with my reactions better.
Thanks again for everything and see you again!
LG F
04/30/2018


Thank you for the great massage from you. It was really a super great and beautiful experience and a great experience.
I would be really happy if we could do it again. If I had my way I could do this every week or at least once a month.
I wish you a wonderful week too.
Best regards
A
04/23/2018


Now that a few days have passed and I've been able to let the massage work on me, it's important for me to tell you again how good it felt - from arriving at your place to saying goodbye. Totally relaxed, without stress. I felt so "free". That was quite a unique experience.
Thanks a lot for this!
J
04/10/2018


I want to write to you briefly about yesterday:
If you give a lot, you will certainly get a lot in return!
I have great respect for your mindfulness.
And respect for your versatile and day-filling work. By the way, it keeps you in good shape!
I wish you all the best,
G.
03/31/2018


Unfortunately I haven't managed to thank you again for the wonderful massage. I really liked holding and breathing. The massage so intense, so different. With a lot of heart. I have felt that very much. Thank you very much.
Best regards
M
03/17/2018


My dear! The massage turned my body back to normality. Thank you so much for you love and sweet energy, god bless you. Also thank you for the book recommendations, I will look into those. All the best, M
07.02.2018


It's been a while, but I kept reminding myself of the good times from time to time.
At this point again a big compliment to you. It was one of my most beautiful experiences and I am very grateful to you for that.
I wish you a pleasant evening.
Kind regards C.
02/01/2018


Merry Christmas and thanks again for the great ritual for three. My wife is still blown away... It was really great. Best regards and have a nice weekend!
B.
13.12.2017


A few days later I would like to thank you for the wonderful experience of my first tantra massage.
From the beginning I felt deep intimacy, closeness and naturalness in this very intimate encounter. It was surprisingly easy for me to concentrate completely on your sensitive touch and to passively engage in this sensual experience in a pleasant and cultivated atmosphere.
For days afterwards I still feel a deep physical and mental relaxation - but at the same time a joyful excitement. What a treat for body, mind and soul!
I hope I can also make my partner curious about this sensual experience and thus enrich our relationship.
How nice that there are people like you!
Best regards
M
10/26/2017


I keep thinking about your massage.
It was just heaven!
Thanks!
A
10/15/2017


Thank you for this wonderful evening. We felt very comfortable with you. It was an exhilarating and fulfilling experience that will surely have a lasting effect. Thanks alot. I wish you a nice sunny day! C
09/21/2017


Thank you so much for your wonderful massage yesterday. It was fantastic and I felt incredibly comfortable with you. I still feel a lot of positive energy in me and I really enjoy it. Have a nice evening
Best regards J.
06/08/2017


I wanted to get back to you one night later and say thank you. It was a very special experience that has a lasting effect on me.
It stimulated me and I took away some things that I will probably think about and feel for a long time. Thanks very much! Greetings M
04/26/2017


Thank you again for the lovely experience yesterday!
I was not mistaken that you are a suitable match for me; where a deeper connection is possible
The massage had a depth that I had never known before. Even if it's hard for my head to relax, you made it so that my body can surrender completely.
06.01.2017, H.


It's been almost three days since you touched me and I still have that pleasant feeling that I couldn't describe right after the massage.
It felt so infinitely good to feel your closeness. I'm also impressed that you weren't afraid of contact, since we were seeing each other for the first time. Your empathy made it very easy for me to accept and enjoy your closeness. I also felt very much that you could get involved with me, which in turn was very good for me.
The experience is definitely something that needs to be repeated
Kind regards -- J
04/30/2017


I was fascinated how quickly I could surrender to your touch, even though it was my first tantra massage. I have never been touched so carefully and gently in my intimate area, not even by my partner. Your loving care was a special gift.
M., 25.5.2016


Your massage was like an inner cleansing for me. You showed me that I'm fine the way I am. I feel completely centered.
J., 16.5.2016


Again I experience how a tantra massage unfolds days later and has a deep and lasting effect. The wonderful massage you gave me last Thursday still moves me very much and as soon as I am not required by my everyday life, I feel the incredibly beneficial touches from you. Your physical closeness was an indescribably beautiful experience for me. I would like to thank you once again from the bottom of my heart!!! I wish I could get another massage from you this year.
Kind regards from H., 16.3.2016