Nicole

Sexual counseling and Coachings also by telephone / Zoom / Skype!

Counseling and coaching sessions in English, also via phone, zoom or skype! English text – scroll down!

Sexual counseling

I offer you the opportunity to talk openly with me about everything that is currently bothering you during this challenging time. Perhaps it is particularly the issues in your sexuality that you would like to change, explore or even just understand. This can be anything, I advise on all questions such as: premature ejaculation, lack of erections, orgasms, body sensation or porn consumption, sexual fantasies, lack of desire in a relationship, not being able to allow much intimacy, etc. Maybe you just have questions that you have always wanted to ask, you are welcome to ask them too. I am happy to take the time to discuss your concerns via Skype or Zoom. Duration and costs depend on the individual concern. If you would like to talk to me, please write me a short message.

Education and career:

Recognized trainer and certified tantric masseuse (TMV®)

Seminar leader Tantra massage at AnandaWave, Cologne

Training in " Sexological Bodywork " and "Sexological Body Therapy" at the IISB, Zurich (Somatic Sexual Education). Recognized by the Association of Somatic and Integrative Sexologists (ASIS)

Somatic sexual counseling ( IISB Zurich)

ThaiYoga teacher (according to Tobias Frank)

Pelvis Work Practitioner ( IISB Zurich)

Member of the Tantra Massage Association (TMV®)

Member of the EASB (European Association of Sexological Bodyworkers)

Regular training courses, e.g. in deep sexual relaxation, orgasmic meditation, yoni massages (yoni communication, yoni as a sensory organ, yoni decongestion, yoni impulse therapy, yoni point press), intuitive massages, sensual meditations, Tao massage

For sexual counseling:

In my work as a sexological body therapist, I create a learning space for my clients, which means that we examine a topic in sexuality that my client would like to change, explore or perhaps just understand. This can be anything, all topics related to erections, orgasms, ejaculations, body sensations or porn consumption, fantasies, lack of desire in a relationship, not being able to allow much intimacy, improving one's own sense of feeling, etc. We then work on it in a mixture of conversation and possibly body work. Often just a few sessions are enough to change something.

I like to support couples in practicing communication with each other about wishes and worries, desires and disdesires, getting to know each other better and dealing mindfully and lovingly with the sunny and dark sides of their sexuality.

For massage:

I came to tantric massage years ago, originally "just" to feel my body again and get in touch with myself. I wanted to create a connection between mind and body, without external demands and expectations, without having to achieve anything.

The experiences I had through the tantric massage rituals can hardly be described in words; they touched and changed me deeply. I suddenly felt like I was in the right place, in an atmosphere of appreciative, healing and sensual touch. There it was, the answer to a longing that I had always felt within me, but was unable to grasp because I had not yet been clear about what I was actually looking for. The mindful tantric bodywork awakened healing processes in me, opened my heart and soul and brought me into contact with my femininity.

I feel that giving massages is a call from my heart. I want to meet people on a deep level, touch their body and soul. For me, tantric massage is about simply being present, accepting what is, and being open to whatever may arise. As a masseuse, I don't have to "achieve" anything, reach any goal, and neither does the person I touch. I respect people in their life story, character, and personality, so that they feel completely accepted. I don't judge. I meet others in a loving, empathetic attitude full of care, and allow a deep connection to develop.

I accept you as a person just as you are. Make peace with your insecurities and fears, forget about clothing sizes or social norms. I see the beauty in you, I adore your body and your soul. Every person, every body is unique and beautiful in itself, a miracle! Enjoy yourself, feel inside yourself and let yourself fall into your experience!

Training and career:

Certified Tantra Massage Therapist (TMV®) according to the criteria of the Tantra Massage Association eV

Training in " Sexological Bodywork " and " Sexological Body Therapy" at the IISB, Zurich ( Somatic Sex Education ). Recognized by the Association of Somatic and Integrative Sexologists (ASIS)

ThaiYoga teacher (after Tobias Frank)

Pelvis Work Practitioner ( IISB Zurich)

Member of the Tantra Massage Association (TMV®)

Member of the EASB (European Association of Sexological Bodyworkers)

Member of "Trusted Bodywork "

Massage co-director at AnandaWave, Cologne. Regular seminar facilitator.

Trained in classic tantric massage, yoni / lingam massage, dealing with sexual disorders in tantric massage, pelvic floor, anal and prostate massage, four-hand massage, female massage, Thai yoga massage

Regular training, eg in deep sexual relaxation, orgasmic meditation, Yoni massages (Yoni communication, Yoni as a sense organ, Yoni decongestion, Yoni impulse therapy, Yoni Point Press), intuitive massages, sensual meditations, Tao massage

Long-term spiritual self-experience through self-experience groups and seminars, systemic constellation work, kinesiology, meditation

Sexual Counseling:

In my work as a sexological body therapist, I create a learning space for my clients, which means that we illuminate a topic that my client would like to change, explore or maybe even just understand. This can be anything, all topics related to erections, orgasms, ejaculations, body sensations or porn consumption, fantasies, lack of pleasure in the partnership, lack of intimacy, improving one's own sense of perceiving, etc. We work on it in a mixture of conversation and possibly bodywork . Often, a few sessions are enough to make a change.

I like to accompany couples in practicing communication with each other about desires and worries, lust and reluctance, to get to know each other better and to deal attentively and lovingly with the bright and dark sides of their sexuality.

Massage:

I discovered the tantra massage years ago, originally “only” to feel my body again and to get in contact with me. I wanted to establish a connection between mind and body, without external demands and expectations, without having to do anything.

My own experiences, which I was allowed to have through the tantra massages, can hardly be described in words, they touched and changed me deeply. I was suddenly in the right place, in an atmosphere of mindful, healing and sensual touch. There it was, the answer to a longing that I had always felt, but hadn't been able to grasp, because until then it was not clear to me what I was actually looking for. Mindful tantric bodywork has awakened healing processes in me, opened my heart and soul and made me more feminine.

I feel that giving massages is a call from my heart, I want to meet people in depth, touch body and soul. For me, the tantra massage is about being present, accepting what is, and being open to what may come up. As a masseuse, I don't expect anything, I don't have to achieve a goal, and neither does the person I am allowed to touch. I respect people with their life history, character and personality so that they feel completely accepted. I don't judge. I treat the other person in a loving, empathetic attitude, full of care and allow a deep connection.

You are accepted by me as the person you are. Make up for your insecurities and fears, forget about clothing sizes or social norms. I see the beauty in you, I adore your body and your soul. Every person, every body is unique and beautiful in itself, a miracle! Enjoy yourself, feel inside yourself and let yourself fall into your experience!

A selection of feedback:

This year I am floating on a quiet little cloud called "Self-Love" and I want to let you know in the evening,

that it is I who feel obliged to be grateful. Not because of any pressure on my soul created by society, but simply because of the wonderfully pleasant and sensual emotional touch that I received today through your hands.

The scent of the oils used is still as sensitive on my skin as your familiar, warm voice is vibrating in my ear. This exciting and at the same time liberating experience, led by you in a room full of comfort, cannot be categorized in my opinion and therefore I do not give it a label. It was and is my best Christmas present in what feels like an eternity.

I will carefully examine your sources of information and know at this very moment that we will meet again in this life at some point in our lives.

I'm looking forward to it and say goodbye in the hope that you have a pleasant evening.

Best regards, S. 17.12.2018

I would like to thank you very much for your sensitive and exceptional massage. Your positive charisma and your friendly smile made me feel good and safe right from the start. Even in the conversation before, during and after the massage, you always found the right words and picked me up in my thoughts wherever I was at that moment.
As you've probably noticed, I find it very difficult to talk about intimate things/wishes. Your words about "saying what you want" really got me thinking. I see a lot of potential for improvement here.
Thank you for this special experience.
Best regards
C. 03.09.2018

In my thoughts I'm sitting opposite you again... the open smile, the beautiful woman with the great figure... you led me, guided me, touched me, gave me gifts. It was moving, it was warm, your breath brushed over my face, I felt like I was being kissed by a snowflake... my thoughts were flying and suddenly stopped... the desire wanted more and more and I ran after it. It was so nice to feel your soft skin on mine... you led me, touched me, gave me gifts. I look forward to another "experience". Thank you...
Love and warm greetings M. 27.08.2018

I thank you! For your empathy, your femininity, for the space, for the timelessness, for the closeness....
And thanks for the tips - wow - a whole treasure trove full - I'll take a look at what's available to me.
Kind regards, H., 14.08.2018


I feel great! The massage helped me relax deeply afterwards and showed me that there is definitely still a lot to discover.
Thank you for the lovely hours and the range of information! That should keep me busy for a while
I felt completely comfortable with you.
Best regards, P. 02.05.2018


Good morning,
I'm in the office quite early again, but I'm still really(!) feeling the effects of your massage yesterday.
The massage itself and every physical contact with you was a wonderful experience for me, and I would like to thank you again for that. My emotions were confused several times and I often tried to get myself back on track quickly. You touched places and points on me that triggered a lot in me and where I had never been touched before. It just burst out of me and I can still feel your energy and your actions very strongly.
After the massage, I would have preferred not to shower so that I could continue to feel the oil and the smells that remind me of your touch. But even after the shower yesterday and today, the scent is still in my nose and gives me a very nice, warm feeling.
Yesterday, however, I was surprised by the physical after-effects. I never expected the massage to exhaust me so much. I don't know if that's normal, but even though I was only passive, it really put a strain on my body, which is actually used to a lot through sport. I can't really explain it, but your touch triggered a lot in my body.
If it was pleasant for you too, I would like to repeat this experience with you again and then I'm sure I won't seem so lost and will be able to deal with my reactions better.
Thanks again for everything and see you soon!
LG F.
30.04.2018


Thank you for your wonderful massage. It was a really wonderful and wonderful experience.
I would really love it if we could do it again. If it were up to me, I could do it every week or at least once a month.
I wish you a wonderful week too.
Best regards
A.
23.04.2018


Now that a few days have passed and I've had time to let the massage take effect, it's important to me to tell you again how good it felt - from the moment I arrived to the moment I left. Totally relaxed, without stress. I felt so "free". It was a pretty unique experience.
Thank you for that!
J.
10.04.2018


I just want to write to you briefly about yesterday:
Whoever gives a lot will certainly get a lot back!
I have great respect for your mindfulness.
And respect for your varied and full-time work. It keeps you in good shape, by the way!
I wish you all the best,
G.
31.03.2018


Unfortunately, I haven't had the chance to thank you again for the wonderful massage. I really liked the holding and the breathing. The massage was so intense, so different. With a lot of heart. I really felt that. Thank you so much.
Best regards
M.
17.03.2018


My dear! The massage turned my body back to normal. Thank you so much for your love and sweet energy, god bless you. Also thank you for the book recommendations, I will look into those. All the best, M.
07.02.2018


It's been a while, but I've always remembered those good times from time to time.
At this point I would like to once again compliment you. It was one of my most wonderful experiences and I am very grateful to you for that.
I wish you a pleasant evening.
Kind regards, C.
01.02.2018


Merry Christmas and thanks again for the great ritual for three of us. My wife is still blown away... It was really great. Best wishes and have a nice weekend!
b.
13.12.2017


A few days later, I would like to thank you for the wonderful experience of my first tantric massage.
From the very beginning, I felt a deep sense of familiarity, closeness, naturalness and ease in this very intimate encounter. I found it surprisingly easy to concentrate entirely on your sensitive touches and to passively engage in this sensual experience in a pleasant and well-kept atmosphere.
Even days later, I still feel a deep physical and mental relaxation - but at the same time a pleasurable excitement. What a relief for body, mind and soul!
I hope I can also make my partner curious about this sensual experience and thus enrich our relationship.
How nice that there are people like you!
Best regards
M.
26.10.2017


I keep thinking about the massage you gave me.
It was simply heavenly!
Thanks!
A.
15.10.2017


Thank you very much for this wonderful evening. We felt very comfortable with you. It was a happy and fulfilling experience that will surely stay with us for a long time. Thank you very much. I hope you have a lovely sunny day! C.
21.09.2017


Thank you so much for your wonderful massage yesterday. It was fantastic and I felt incredibly comfortable with you. I still feel a lot of positive energy in me and I'm enjoying it very much. I wish you a nice evening.
Best regards, J.
08.06.2017


I wanted to get in touch with you again after one night and thank you. It was a very special experience that still has an impact on me.
It inspired me and I took away a lot of things that I will probably think and feel about for a long time. Thank you very much! Regards, M.
26.04.2017


Thank you again for the wonderful experience yesterday!
I was not mistaken that you are a suitable counterpart for me; with whom a deeper connection is possible
The massage had a depth that I had never experienced before. Even though my head found it difficult to relax, you managed to get my body to surrender completely.
06.01.2017, H.


It's been almost three days since you touched me and I can still feel that pleasant feeling that I couldn't describe right after the massage.
It felt so incredibly good to feel your closeness. I am also impressed that you were not afraid to touch me, as we were seeing each other for the first time. Your empathy made it very easy for me to accept and enjoy your closeness. I also felt that you were able to open up to me, which in turn did me a lot of good.
The experience is definitely something that must be repeated
Best regards -- J.
30.04.2017


I was fascinated by how quickly I was able to surrender to your touch, even though it was my first tantric massage. I have never been touched so carefully and tenderly in my intimate area, not even by my partner. Your loving attention was a special gift.
M., 25.5.2016


Your massage was like an inner cleansing for me. You showed me that I am fine just the way I am. I feel completely centered.
J., 16.5.2016


I am experiencing again how a tantric massage unfolds days later and has a deep and lasting effect. The wonderful massage you gave me last Thursday still moves me deeply and as soon as I am not busy with my everyday life, I can feel your incredibly soothing touches. Your physical closeness was an indescribably beautiful experience for me. I would like to thank you once again very, very much for that!!! I hope to be able to have another massage from you this year.
Best regards from H., 16.3.2016